I don't agree with using a guide for an RPG. I know a kid who buys the guide with the game, like Mai, and then he just follows the guide through the whole game so he can make sure all his guys have the best stats and items and such. I think that's ridiculous, you may as well just watch someone play through the game for you. Hell, you you may as well just read the strategy guide, because that's all you'll be doing anyway, exactly what it tells you.
Now, it's different if you get stuck or are playing through a second time, that sort of thing, but the fun of getting stuck is figuring out what to do. The reason I enjoy games like Zelda so much is that when I get stuck, I go and find something else to do, and once I get stuck there, I go back to what I was stuck on before with a different perspective, and most of the time, this method works for getting around obstacles. If you're just gonna read a guide telling you how to do it there's no reward in figuring it out yourself, you're missing half the experience. However, if you just want to see how the story progresses, that's different too, but I still think you should do it on your own, the first time through anyway.