I'm not gonna condone what Mario said, but on the other hand I am not gonna give him grief either. Why? Because I have seen it all too often where a woman will use the baby against a man to play completely selfish and almost psychotic mind games. He made a mistake, but so did she, so it's not right if she is pinning it all on him all the time...In this case it sounds like the best thing might be for them to split as a couple and find a way to spend equal time with the kid. It's not healthy for a child to be in that environment if they are fighting and arguing all the time, ya know?